Some people trust their
first impressions about a person’s character because they believe these
judgments are generally correct. Other people do not judge a person’s character
quickly because they believe first impressions are often wrong. Compare these two
attitudes. Which attitude do you agree with? Support your choice with specific
examples.
Some people think that
first impression about a person is the most correct. However, other people
disagree and believe that first impression is often wrong. From my everyday
experience and observation I can stand
that the first impression about a person is very often incorrect. In the
following paragraphs I will list my reasons to support my answer.
First of all, when people
meet for the first time they often do not have time to get to know each other
or even have a conversation. So, sometimes all they remember is how they
looked. Personally, I often myself judge a person by his or her external
appearance. Fortunately, I many times made sure of the incorrectness of my judgments. For
example, when I met my future husband for the first time he made an impression
of frown and not talkative person and, frankly speaking, I did not like him at
all. We did not have a chance to talk, but his cloth and manners gave me that
impression. However, after we were introduced to each other and had a long talk
I changed my opinion about him. He happened to be a very sensitive and kind
person.
Second of all, I believe
that the true impression about a person can be made only after people spent at
least a few weeks with each other and were in different situations including extreme
and danger ones. I think that a person shows his or her internal
characteristics when in danger. Moreover, some people, especially celebrities,
tend to hide their weaknesses and not attractive sides in order to please an
audience.
In conclusion, I believe
that first impression is very often wrong. I must confess that I unconsciously
judge a person by his or her first appearance but I tell my self that this is
subject to change and try to keep my opinion with me.
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